Yashodhara Lal is an Author, Coach, Marketer. Mom of Three, Fitness Instructor, Music Lover, Yoga Enthusiast and Transactional-Analysis-Psychotherapist-in-Training. Allsomeness is her venture dedicated to helping people connect with their passions, and to design and live their fullest lives.
Sunday, May 29, 2011
What mommyhood taught me...Tag
I feel very ill equipped to write this, but since it's Dipali who's tagged me, how can I not?
The reason I feel ill equipped is because I feel so certain that I am still learning. The funny thing is, a year ago, I thought I was pretty certain about what being a mother means, but then several things happened in quick succession
* I gave birth to identical twin boys
* My little Peanut became a 3 year old teenager
* I underwent two surgeries within a span of two weeks, and the worst possible health condition I've ever been in.
So basically, everything I had learnt thus far went for a toss.
But anyway, 5 things I can safely say I've learnt by being a mommy -
a. I am not the center of the universe. Not even close. The kids, all three of them, matter much more than me. I don't think I've ever been this unselfish.
b. I am the center of the universe. For them. No one else has that kind of effect on them. To be able to comfort them. It's magical. I've never felt more important.
c. My husband takes on a whole new dimension of attractiveness by how he behaves as a father. It is indescribable.
d. Your friends or cousins will never understand what it's like. Until they have their own. And that's okay, because you never understood before it happened, either.
e. Mum was probably actually right when she said she didn't love my brother or sister more than me just because they were older and younger. I know. I have three of my own now. Although technically, there is no middle child in my case, but still, Pickle is a minute older than Papad. Anyway. I guess that's just not how love works. There isn't a limited supply to be divided between people. There's plenty of it to go all around.
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Good girl, Y! Thank you.ReplyDelete
I love the absolute and opposite truths of your first two points:)
And yes, the more you love, the more love you have to give. It's truly magical.
Welcome to the Moms' Club, darling! It's sheer joy, no? :_)ReplyDelete
Same pinch on all points except the first!ReplyDelete
Bloggy award for you, btw: http://sunayanaroy.blogspot.com/2011/05/versatility-motherhood.html